Welcome to the world of recovery

  • To begin with, spirituality plays a central yet inclusive role in Alcoholics Anonymous (AA)’s recovery process. Rather than promoting a specific religion, AA emphasizes a personal connection to a “Higher Power” as everyone understands it. This approach allows people from various or no faiths to engage in spiritual growth without feeling excluded. The 12 Steps of AA frequently reference spiritual principles such as surrender, humility, and self-examination, encouraging individuals to reflect inward and develop a more profound sense of purpose.  

    Next, during meetings, members often share personal stories highlighting how turning to a Higher Power has helped them find strength, hope, and direction in their sobriety. Spirituality is also fostered through practices such as prayer (including the Serenity Prayer), meditation, and group support, which create a sense of connection and trust. Fisher & Harrison (2017) state that “Spirituality is different from religiosity in that the former emphasizes a relationship between an individual and a higher power or some other transcendent force, whereas religiosity refers to religious practices and beliefs” (p. 212).   

    Attending AA meetings has also given me a deeper understanding of how individuals in recovery relate to a higher power. One of the most striking observations is the wide range of interpretations of that Power. Some members refer to God in a traditional or religious sense, while others define their Higher Power as the collective wisdom of the group, nature, or even the AA program itself. There’s a strong emphasis on personal connection and meaning rather than a prescribed belief system.  

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    However, many members speak about surrendering control, acknowledging that their lives had become unmanageable and that they needed help beyond themselves. This act of surrender seems to bring a sense of relief, hope, and direction. I also noticed how often people mention being “powerless over alcohol,” not as weakness but as the first step toward empowerment through their relationship with a higher power.  Clinton & Scalise (2013) explain it this way: “Spiritual applications to addiction recovery are seen in many of the current models of treatment used today. One of the most well-known and widely used models is the 12 Steps, originally created for Alcoholics Anonymous” (p. 53).  

    Nevertheless, as someone who holds a biblical worldview, I deeply appreciate the foundational principles behind AA meetings. The emphasis on admitting one’s powerlessness over addiction mirrors the biblical truth that we all need help beyond ourselves, specifically, the saving grace of Jesus Christ (Romans 7:18-25). AA’s concept of a “Higher Power” resonates with my belief in a sovereign, loving God who desires to bring healing and restoration. Doweiko (2019) declares, “Spirituality is not a waste of time: People who follow a spiritual way of life gain untold benefits from faithfully following this path” (p. 368).  

    Finally, while AA remains spiritually inclusive to reach a broad audience, I view recovery through the lens of God’s redemptive work. and I see that hope reflected in the stories of renewal shared in AA meetings. The vulnerability and accountability found in these groups also align with biblical teachings about confessing sins and bearing one another’s burdens. Overall, my biblical worldview enhances my respect for the structure and goals of AA. While I believe ultimate healing comes through Christ, I see AA as a powerful tool that God can use to bring people closer to truth, community, and lasting change.  

    For more information for yourself, a friend or a family member please visit https://www.aa.org

    References:  

    Clinton, T., & Scalise, E. (2013). The quick-reference guide to addictions and recovery counseling: 40 topics, spiritual insights,and easy -to-use action steps. Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Books.  

    Doweiko, H. E. (2019). Concepts of chemical dependency – with MindTap (Custom) (10th ed.). Stamford, CT: Cengage.  

    Fisher, Gary L., & Harrison, Thomas C. (2017) Substance Abuse: Information for SchoolCounselors, Social Workers, Therapists, and Counselors (6th ed.).  

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  • Why It’s Time to Shift the Narrative: There is power in language. How we speak about diseases like addiction or mental illness can either help or hurt those who are struggling.

    • Redefining Recovery: Recovery shouldn’t be framed as a moral victory. Instead, it’s about managing a condition, building resilience, and receiving the support necessary to lead a fulfilling life.
    • Advocating for Resources: With a disease-centered approach, we can better advocate for more accessible healthcare services. People need proper treatment, not criticism. Whether it’s therapy, medication, or community support, everyone deserves access to the resources to help them manage their condition.
    • Building Understanding: We need to make room for conversations that educate people on the biological, psychological, and environmental factors that influence these diseases. We can only reduce stigma and build a more inclusive, compassionate society.

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    There’s no shame in being ill. It’s time we redefine what it means to struggle with a disease and create a world where people receive the care, respect, and support they deserve. We all deserve a healthy, supportive environment to thrive, regardless of our struggles. Let’s stop blaming people for their conditions and start treating them with the compassion they need to heal. If you or someone you know is struggling with a disease, seek help. Whether it’s through therapy, support groups, or a trusted medical professional, you don’t have to face it alone. Let’s change the narrative and spread awareness about the importance of empathy over judgment.

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  • We’ve all heard the phrase, “It’s a choice,” when discussing specific issues. Addiction and mental illness —society often labels these struggles as personal failures, as though those affected could “snap out of it” if they tried hard enough. But what if we’ve been getting it wrong all along? What if these conditions are not moral failings but diseases that deserve empathy, treatment, and understanding? Let’s challenge these harmful misconceptions and open a more compassionate conversation.

    We live in a world where moral judgment often overshadows medical understanding. People facing conditions like addiction or mental health disorders are usually blamed for their struggles, even though these conditions are scientifically recognized as diseases. It’s often seen as a personal weakness, but research shows that addiction alters brain chemistry. It’s not just about willpower—it’s about neurological changes that make it hard for the brain to function normally. The idea that addiction is a choice doesn’t hold up when we look at it from a medical standpoint.

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    Depression, anxiety, and other mental health disorders are frequently minimized by society. People are told to “just think positive” or “get over it,” disregarding the fact that these are real medical conditions with biological and environmental factors that affect brain function. A disease doesn’t reflect a person’s character or choices. It’s an illness, often beyond one’s control. Let’s explore why this distinction is so important.

    Conditions like addiction and mental illness involve complex interactions between genetics, environment, and brain chemistry. Just as we wouldn’t blame someone for developing cancer or diabetes, we shouldn’t point fingers at those affected by these conditions. By treating these issues as diseases, we shift from blame to empathy. We can support people on their journey toward recovery rather than shaming them into isolation or further struggles. Shame often leads to silence, perpetuating the problem. When we stop treating these issues as moral failings, people feel empowered to seek help without fear of judgment. This could mean life-saving treatment, therapy, or support groups.

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  • Addiction is a Disease, Not a Moral Failure

    For decades, addiction has been misunderstood, stigmatized, and unfairly linked to moral weakness or lack of willpower. However, research in neuroscience and psychology has consistently shown that addiction is a chronic brain disease, not a choice or character flaw. This shift in understanding is crucial for developing compassionate, effective approaches to treatment and recovery. The greater the understanding among human services workers, counselors, and therapists of this concept, the more empathy and compassion they will show to clients struggling with substance use disorders and other forms of addiction.

    The Science Behind Addiction

    Addiction fundamentally alters the brain’s structure and function. Substances such as drugs and alcohol hijack the brain’s reward system, leading to compulsive behavior despite negative consequences. The repeated use of addictive substances changes how neurotransmitters like dopamine function, making it increasingly difficult for individuals to experience pleasure from everyday activities. These biological changes explain why people struggling with addiction find it so challenging to stop, even when they want to. In reality, the addictive individual wants to stop, but the brain is begging for more dopamine.

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    Genetic and Environmental Factors

    Research indicates that genetic predisposition plays a significant role in addiction. Some individuals are more vulnerable due to inherited traits that affect their brain chemistry. Additionally, environmental factors such as trauma, stress, and early exposure to substances can contribute to the development of addiction. These influences demonstrate that addiction is not simply about making poor choices but is often the result of complex biological and social factors. The younger an individual is when they first start using substances or behave in an unwanted negative behavioral pattern, the more difficult it may be for that person to break free from their addictive habit as they get older.

    References:

    Are Some People Predisposed to Addiction? | Harmony Ridge Recovery Center. https://www.harmonyridgerecovery.com/are-some-people-predisposed-to-addiction/

    Breaking the Stigma: Why Addiction is a Disease, Not a Weakness – True Humaniversity Foundation. https://truehumaniversityfoundation.com/2023/01/27/breaking-the-stigma-why-addiction-is-a-disease-not-a-weakness/

    The Role of Mental Health in Substance Abuse – Gregg’s Gift. https://greggsgift.org/the-role-of-mental-health-in-substance-abuse/

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  • Tips for Success During Dry January

    If you’ve decided to take on Dry January, here are some tips to help you stay on track and make the most of the experience:

    1. Set Clear Goals
      Before you start, take a moment to clarify why you’re doing Dry January and what you hope to achieve. Whether it’s improving your health, saving money, or resetting your drinking habits, having clear intentions will help you stay focused and motivated throughout the month.
    2. Prepare for Social Situations
      It can be tricky to avoid alcohol in social settings, especially when friends or family are drinking. Have a plan for how you’ll navigate these situations. Consider bringing your own alcohol-free beverages, such as sparkling water, soda, or a mocktail. You could also practice saying, “I’m taking a break from alcohol this month” to explain your decision confidently.
    3. Find Support
      Dry January doesn’t have to be a solo mission. Many people participate in the challenge alongside friends, family members, or coworkers, which makes the experience more fun and rewarding. Consider joining online communities or local groups to share your progress and get tips from others.
    4. Replace Alcohol with Healthier Alternatives
      One of the joys of Dry January is exploring new non-alcoholic beverages. There’s a growing selection of mocktails, alcohol-free beers, and even non-alcoholic spirits that offer the flavors of traditional drinks without the booze. Get creative with your drink choices and experiment with recipes you can enjoy throughout the month.
    5. Reflect and Celebrate
      At the end of the month, take some time to reflect on your experience. Did you notice any health improvements? How did it affect your mood or energy levels? Take pride in completing the challenge and celebrate your success—whether that means treating yourself to something special or continuing your alcohol-free lifestyle beyond January.

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    Is Dry January Right for You?

    While Dry January has many benefits, it’s not for everyone. If you find that abstaining from alcohol causes you stress or anxiety, it’s important to reassess the challenge and approach it in a way that works for you. For some people, the goal is not necessarily to quit drinking completely but to develop a healthier relationship with alcohol. The key is to find balance and make choices that align with your long-term well-being.

    Conclusion

    Dry January is more than just a way to hit the reset button after the holidays. It’s an opportunity to assess your habits, improve your health, and develop a more mindful approach to drinking. Whether you’re in it for the health benefits, the financial savings, or simply to take a break, the challenge can be a rewarding experience. If you’ve been considering giving it a go, there’s no better time than now to start the year off fresh, healthy, and feeling your best.

    Are you participating in Dry January? Share your tips and experiences in the comments!

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  • As the new year begins, many of us reflect on our habits, goals, and aspirations. One common resolution is to reduce or cut out alcohol for a month, and for many, that resolution takes the shape of “Dry January.” Whether you’re aiming to detox after the indulgent holiday season or simply want to take a break from drinking, participating in Dry January can be a transformative experience. Here’s why you might want to give it a try and how to make the most of this alcohol-free month.


    What is Dry January?

    Dry January is a month-long challenge where participants abstain from alcohol for the entirety of January. It was originally started by the UK-based charity Alcohol Change UK in 2013 as a way to raise awareness about alcohol consumption and its effects on health. Since then, it has gained global popularity, with people from all walks of life joining the movement to reset their relationship with alcohol.

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    Benefits of Dry January

    While the challenge may seem daunting, there are many benefits to taking part in Dry January. Here are just a few:

    1. Health Benefits Cutting out alcohol for a month gives your liver a chance to recover and regenerate. Alcohol can take a toll on your liver and digestive system, and a month off can help reduce inflammation, improve digestion, and support detoxification. Plus, it’s an opportunity to improve your sleep quality and boost your immune system, both of which can be impacted by alcohol consumption.
    2. Weight Loss and Better Eating Habits Alcohol is high in calories with little nutritional value. For those looking to shed some holiday weight, Dry January can help kickstart the process. Without alcohol’s empty calories and the typical late-night snacking that accompanies drinking, many participants find that they lose weight or gain better control over their eating habits.
    3. Improved Mental Health Regular alcohol consumption can negatively affect your mental health, contributing to anxiety, depression, or sleep disturbances. By abstaining for a month, many people find that their mood improves, they feel less stressed, and they have more energy to tackle their day-to-day tasks. It’s a great way to reset your mental state and build better coping mechanisms.
    4. Financial Savings Alcohol can be expensive, especially if you enjoy dining out or buying bottles for home consumption. By taking part in Dry January, you’ll likely notice a significant reduction in your monthly spending, which can be used to invest in other aspects of your life—whether it’s a gym membership, travel fund, or a fun experience.
    5. Breaking Habits and Setting Boundaries For many people, drinking has become a routine part of socializing or unwinding after a long day. Dry January offers an opportunity to break these habits and explore new, healthier ways of spending your time. Whether it’s focusing on fitness, meditation, or diving into hobbies you’ve been meaning to pursue, Dry January provides a chance to find new ways to unwind.

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  • The holiday season can be a tremendous occasion for those who are suffering from a substance use disorder, or any disorder for that matter. Speaking with one person, they said, “My holiday dinner was good. I celebrated it with family and friends, and they smiled.” Knowing and realizing that those with a network support system are in place during the holiday season is a significant factor in their treatment or recovery. Not lapsing or relapsing is crucial. However, when talking with other individuals during the holidays about their substance usage, some would say, “It was minimal use of drugs over the holidays,” which, for some, is a fantastic way to be able to decrease and reduce the amount of alcohol consumed or opioid used.


    Yes, the holidays can be a trigger for those who struggle to stay away from using. Not all holidays are suitable for some people. Some people struggle with trauma, bad memories, and abusive situations. For me, my father died the day after Christmas in 1991. If I were still a drinker, alcohol would be my comfort during the holidays, but I have learned to cope in other ways by not using drugs or alcohol. During the holiday season, it is okay to speak with a licensed clinical therapist or a certified substance abuse counselor about how best to cope with the holidays and not use. Such strategies as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Motivational Interviewing can address thoughts behind using drugs and ways to change behaviors during the Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s holidays. Other tips can be not isolating ourselves, overspending, having a support network in place, attending an AA or NA, and practicing self-care. You matter.

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    One of the ways to avoid not using drugs or alcohol during the holidays is simply not planning to engage in the illicit use of opiates by avoiding negative people, places, and things. One individual I spoke with said, “I will enjoy time with my family. They will hold me accountable.” Others have said that they will go out with family and friends for dinner and will have a relapse plan in place.  For this to work, the plan must be intentional. Like our treatment plan, recovery must be deliberate to see positive results. Also, just being open and honest about discussing how to handle triggers, cravings, and urges during the holiday season is a great way to get to the root of any problem. 

    Finally, I wanted to end this post by not only talking about using alcohol and drugs during the holidays but also suicide as well during the holidays. One of the most prominent destructive factors in America today is the rate of suicidal tendencies in our country. It appears that the attempt to commit suicide and the action itself have increased in recent years, and some of the factors could be the growing increase of opioid addiction to Fentanyl and the adverse effects of social media among young adults. When a person is facing committing the act, whether or not they have a plan, method, or intention, they should always be taken seriously and not dismissed as something not worth investigating. The individual struggling with this concept will need support from a professional in the mental health field to address their needs at that time. “Suicide, a major public health concern, takes around 800,000 lives globally every year and is the second leading cause of death among adolescents and young adults” (Martinez et al., 2020). 

    At this point in our society, active listening skills and empathy will come into play as it is an all-hands-on-deck for those professionals in the mental health field to help decrease this epidemic during the holiday season. Active listening will be one of the keys to getting as much information as possible. In this situation where someone may be thinking about suicide, if the human services worker ignores the details, there may be lost information crucial to helping the individual to survive the event. The human services worker must be cognitive, understanding, and receptive to hearing what the person is saying. Not only that, but the worker must also be empathetic, considerate, and concerned not just during the holiday season but every day!

    Reference:

    Martinez-Ales, G., Hernandez-Calle, D., Khauli, N., & Keyes, K. M. (2020). Why are suicide rates increasing in the United States? Towards a multilevel reimagination of suicide prevention. Behavioral neurobiology of suicide and self-harm, 1-23.

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  • Self-efficacy is described as an individual’s belief in his or her capacity to execute behaviors necessary to produce specific performance attainments, and also, and it reflects confidence in the ability to exert control over one’s own motivation, behavior, and social environment (Feist, J. et al., 2021). How does self-efficacy impact personality? It may impact personality and determine whether or not a person believes they can accomplish their goals. If the individual has a strong personality, they may be more motivated to achieve goals, reflecting their behavior. Since self-efficacy reflects a belief and a sense of confidence in whether individuals can use their capacity to achieve tasks and is related to the level of motivation, actions, and psychological state (Xiong, H. et al. 2020) all humans in any field of work, career, or endeavor can gain insight into their strengths and abilities if they will only tap in. An individual with a substance disorder can increase their self-efficacy by incorporating cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) principles to address thinking patterns, feelings, and behaviors and also implementing motivational interviewing (MI) to change unwanted behaviors to more positive behaviors.

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    References:

    Feist, J., Feist, G. J., & Roberts, T. (2021). Theories of personality (10th ed.). New York, NY: McGraw-Hill

    Xiong, H., Yi, S., & Lin, Y. (2020). The psychological status and self-efficacy of nurses during COVID-19 outbreak: a cross-sectional survey. INQUIRY: The Journal of Health Care Organization, Provision, and Financing, 57, 0046958020957114.

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  • Sleep deprivation is a general term to describe a state caused by inadequate quantity or quality of sleep (Kalat, 2019). Sleep is as essential to the human body as food and water, but many do not get enough sleep. Years ago, there was a time when the television stations went off the air, and there was no more programming. The major channels, such as NBC, CBS, and ABC, went off around 1:00 am. There was no social media at that time; computers and everything in most cities were shut down.

    We live in a different world today. Society is up 24/7, nonstop. It is a wonder why sleep deprivation is so common today, from college students engaging in all night activities to those working overnights, those playing video games late at night, and those just watching television until 5:00 am. This could lead to why people experience insomnia. Insomnia is a common sleep disorder. With insomnia, you may have trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or getting good-quality sleep (Kalat, 2019). The emphasis here is on ‘good-quality sleep ‘. Because there are many stimuli in the world today, individuals’ minds are constantly racing, even while sleeping. Most Americans miss this critical success in life. Getting a good night’s sleep.

    As a result, when a person is sleep-deprived, it could lead to severe issues. I remember working a 12-hour overnight shift from 7 pm to 7 am and then driving 4 hours that morning for a Thanksgiving family dinner later that afternoon. When a friend asked how the drive was coming down, the response was, “I am not sure; I slept the entire trip.” I was awake but remembered nothing because I was tired and sleep-deprived. I was not thinking about putting my wife and daughters at risk of having an accident by falling asleep at the wheel.  When we are sleep deprived it could lead to fear and anxiety.  

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    Eliminating fear and anxiety is one of the biggest challenges running out of control in our nation today. A significant pandemic, inflation, high gas and food prices, student loan depth, affordable housing, racial tensions, opioid and fentanyl addiction, and more have arrested the hearts and minds of most Americans and have kept them in the bondage of fear and worry. Fear can be a powerful emotion and, if not kept in check, can ruin a person’s lifestyle. However, the things that most people usually fear do not come to fruition. The acronym of F.E.A.R. is False Evidence Appearing Real.

    However, how do we eliminate fear, stress, and anxiety and reduce panic attacks? Having exceptionally high levels of any of these emotions for an extended period can be dangerous to the human body, both physically and mentally. Panic disorders are a prime example as characterized by frequent periods of anxiety and occasional attacks of rapid breathing, increased heart rate, sweating, and trembling or PTSD, which is marked by frequent distressing recollections (flashbacks) and nightmares about the traumatic event, avoidance of reminders of it, and vigorous reactions to noises and other stimuli (Kalat, 2019). The potential for a healthier and wiser world, with fewer suicidal attempts, is within our grasp if we can foster peace and tranquility instead of fear and anxiety.

    Reference:

    Kalat, J. W. (2019). Biological Psychology (13th ed.).

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  • Dual-diagnosis is very important to understand when someone is struggling with addiction, mainly because when a person arrives for treatment at a hospital, residential treatment facility, or a partial hospitalization program, it is essential to present the correct diagnosis. It appears, at times, that a mental health disorder can be misdiagnosed as a substance use disorder and vice versa. It is also essential that the professionals in the field have the highest and best training available to be proficient in their understanding of dual diagnosis and present an accurate diagnosis for the individual to receive proper treatment, including counseling services and pharmacology methods. 

    Moreover, in the past, having worked in an ASAM 2.1 Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) as well as an ASAM 3.1 twenty-eight-day residential substance abuse program with individuals with dual-diagnosis or another phrase that could be used, co-occurring disorder. These individuals were diagnosed with substance use disorders such as alcohol use disorder, cocaine use disorder, cannabis use disorder, and opioid use disorder, to name a few. As it relates to mental health, bipolar disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, major depressive disorder, and obsessive-compulsive disorder were diagnosed with these clients. If these clients were misdiagnosed in any way, it would have had a detrimental effect on their recovery process, and treatment would have been ineffective. When clients are misdiagnosed by those who call themselves professionals, this could easily be a liability and injustice to the clients and their families, resulting in harmful, unwanted behaviors.

     “Further, clients with co-occurring disorders are at increased risk for incarceration, less able to handle personal finances, have a weaker support system, and are more prone to depression and feelings of hopelessness” (Doweiko, 2019). So, the question may be asked, “How can co-occurring disorders impact the addiction cycle?” One who is struggling with any addiction, whether chemical or behavioral, knows how difficult it is to get free from something they do not want to do. When talking with individuals who are addicted to a disorder, many have said, “I want to be free. I do not want to live like this.” They can not get free because they are in a continuous cycle, non-stop, that goes around and around.

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    In comparison, imagine someone having a substance use disorder and dealing with depression or anxiety. Not only does this individual have a bad habit that they do not want to be in, but if diagnosed with, say, depression, now there is no hope, no light at the end of the tunnel, and it can end in a life of no purpose which may lead to other issues like low self-esteem and low self-worth. It is like going around in a circle of darkness, not knowing when it will stop. How can this individual be helped? What can be done to resolve this issue? “Some require hospitalization or a detox program to break the cycle of addiction. Some require medications. Others need social skill training or stress management training. Some may need life-skill education, such as money management or job interviewing preparations” (Clinton & Scalise, 2013).

    Finally, there is a remedy to the cycle of addiction and the population we serve with dual diagnosis. Having a spiritual component, along with therapy or counseling sessions, may give a person some hope to break free from the cycle of addiction. Positive change can happen in addictive behavior.  It is essential to know that when dealing with someone who has a dual diagnosis, it is best to treat the substance use disorder first before treating the mental health diagnosis, or more recently, many professionals are now treating these issues at the same time rather than separately.

    For more information for yourself, a friend or a family member please visit https://nida.nih.gov/

    References:

    Clinton, T., & Scalise, E. (2013). The quick-reference guide to addictions and recovery counseling: 40 topics, spiritual insights, and easy-to-use action steps. New York, NY: Baker Books. 

    Doweiko, H. E. (2019). Concepts of chemical dependency (10th ed.). Stamford, CT: Cengage.  

    https://nida.nih.gov/research-topics/co-occurring-disorders-health-conditions       

             

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